Bad Aftertaste

Man went to Reddit for advice on his cheating wife. After deciding to divorce her, the wife kills her children, and attempts to kill herself.

 

Story:

http://www.jconline.com/story/news/crime/2016/11/17/suspect-arrested-montgomery-co-double-homicide/94013154/

 

Original posts:

https://archive.is/sKJmK

 

I'm just curious as to what you guys would do if someone cheated on you similarly to this situation. From both sides, wife and husband.

Edited by Hung Wang, 02 January 2017 - 04:14 PM.

What a selfish bitch. That's about all I have to say. 

Article says she survived her suicide attack...

However, selfish doesn't even begin to describe this bitch...

I'm just curious as to what you guys would do if someone cheated on you similarly to this situation. From both sides, wife and husband.

deffo divorce and move on.. 

 

i'm ngl though, he was a lil bitch for letting his wife BULLY him into making him apologise to the neighbour!

 

But I guess that's what love does.. makes you blind to reality.

 

Real sad story

If Hubby did that I'd leave, but I understand staying to protect the kids, although I think the kids are at greater risk for other damage. As for her violence, well this is one deeply disturbed woman and there was a lot more going on than just what was in the posts and in the news. What a sad, horrible story!

Article says she survived her suicide attack...

However, selfish doesn't even begin to describe this bitch...

Yeah, you're right, I forgot to mention that. I was pretty appalled after I read the article. Think I wish she had died...

 

 

 

I'm just curious as to what you guys would do if someone cheated on you similarly to this situation. From both sides, wife and husband.

deffo divorce and move on.. 

 

i'm ngl though, he was a lil bitch for letting his wife BULLY him into making him apologise to the neighbour!

 

But I guess that's what love does.. makes you blind to reality.

 

Real sad story

 

I'm glad I wasn't the only one thinking he didn't do enough to prevent this all from happening.

Article says she survived her suicide attack...
However, selfish doesn't even begin to describe this bitch...

Yeah, you're right, I forgot to mention that. I was pretty appalled after I read the article. Think I wish she had died...
 
 

 

I'm just curious as to what you guys would do if someone cheated on you similarly to this situation. From both sides, wife and husband.

deffo divorce and move on.. 
 
i'm ngl though, he was a lil bitch for letting his wife BULLY him into making him apologise to the neighbour!
 
But I guess that's what love does.. makes you blind to reality.
 
Real sad story
 

I'm glad I wasn't the only one thinking he didn't do enough to prevent this all from happening.

I skipped reading the news articles bbecause it was too sad. I think it is unfair to blame the husband, he had his limitations and weaknesses and couldn't know she was going to do that. If he was a woman would you judge her as harshly?

If either one of them killed their children because their spouse wanted a divorce, I'd react the exact same way.

They both should rot in hell, with the fleas of 1000 camels infesting their crotches while they rot.

I skipped reading the news articles bbecause it was too sad. I think it is unfair to blame the husband, he had his limitations and weaknesses and couldn't know she was going to do that. If he was a woman would you judge her as harshly?

I don't think the Father is to blame at all here. But he's damn well retarded & guilty for not handling that situation like a man.

 

What woman will ever take you seriously again after you don't stand up for yourself? Apologise to the neighbour that's been fucking your wife?? Come onnnnnnnn

I skipped reading the news articles bbecause it was too sad. I think it is unfair to blame the husband, he had his limitations and weaknesses and couldn't know she was going to do that. If he was a woman would you judge her as harshly?

I don't think the Father is to blame at all here. But he's damn well retarded & guilty for not handling that situation like a man.
 
What woman will ever take you seriously again after you don't stand up for yourself? Apologise to the neighbour that's been fucking your wife?? Come onnnnnnnn

Clearly the guy is very troubled. Do you think it is an accident that he chose that woman for a wife? Do you think there no clues at all that she was a sick, twisted individual? None of this happened in a vacuum. There are always signs if you are willing and able to see them. He acted like he was blindsided and was a victim because that was who he was, a victim in his life. I could be wrong, but I doubt it. We choose our partners and how we handle the cards life deals us, and we do the best we can with what we have to work with. This guy was in a lot of trouble long before that mess went down and I don't think he had many inner resources available to him.

 

 

I skipped reading the news articles bbecause it was too sad. I think it is unfair to blame the husband, he had his limitations and weaknesses and couldn't know she was going to do that. If he was a woman would you judge her as harshly?

I don't think the Father is to blame at all here. But he's damn well retarded & guilty for not handling that situation like a man.
 
What woman will ever take you seriously again after you don't stand up for yourself? Apologise to the neighbour that's been fucking your wife?? Come onnnnnnnn

Clearly the guy is very troubled. Do you think it is an accident that he chose that woman for a wife? Do you think there no clues at all that she was a sick, twisted individual? None of this happened in a vacuum. There are always signs if you are willing and able to see them. He acted like he was blindsided and was a victim because that was who he was, a victim in his life. I could be wrong, but I doubt it. We choose our partners and how we handle the cards life deals us, and we do the best we can with what we have to work with. This guy was in a lot of trouble long before that mess went down and I don't think he had many inner resources available to him.

 

I've closely known a few people who've done very crazy shit and I assure you, the signs are rarely there. Or at least rarely obvious. In my experience, crazy shit like this tends to drop out of the blue and seemingly decided on impulse rather than thought. 

I don't see how he shares any form of blame here at all. 

 

 

I skipped reading the news articles bbecause it was too sad. I think it is unfair to blame the husband, he had his limitations and weaknesses and couldn't know she was going to do that. If he was a woman would you judge her as harshly?

I don't think the Father is to blame at all here. But he's damn well retarded & guilty for not handling that situation like a man.
 
What woman will ever take you seriously again after you don't stand up for yourself? Apologise to the neighbour that's been fucking your wife?? Come onnnnnnnn

Clearly the guy is very troubled. Do you think it is an accident that he chose that woman for a wife? Do you think there no clues at all that she was a sick, twisted individual? None of this happened in a vacuum. There are always signs if you are willing and able to see them. He acted like he was blindsided and was a victim because that was who he was, a victim in his life. I could be wrong, but I doubt it. We choose our partners and how we handle the cards life deals us, and we do the best we can with what we have to work with. This guy was in a lot of trouble long before that mess went down and I don't think he had many inner resources available to him.
 

I've closely known a few people who've done very crazy shit and I assure you, the signs are rarely there. Or at least rarely obvious. In my experience, crazy shit like this tends to drop out of the blue and seemingly decided on impulse rather than thought. 
I don't see how he shares any form of blame here at all. 

Just because you miss the signs doesn't mean there are no signs. With that said, I don't think the guy is at fault, I just think he showed poor judgement in how he handled things with the affair. He knew his wife was cheating, lying, emotionally blackmailing, gaslighting, and he chose to tolerate all that. As I said, we do the best we can with what we have to work with and this guy was very limited.

 

 

I skipped reading the news articles bbecause it was too sad. I think it is unfair to blame the husband, he had his limitations and weaknesses and couldn't know she was going to do that. If he was a woman would you judge her as harshly?

I don't think the Father is to blame at all here. But he's damn well retarded & guilty for not handling that situation like a man.
 
What woman will ever take you seriously again after you don't stand up for yourself? Apologise to the neighbour that's been fucking your wife?? Come onnnnnnnn

Clearly the guy is very troubled. Do you think it is an accident that he chose that woman for a wife? Do you think there no clues at all that she was a sick, twisted individual? None of this happened in a vacuum. There are always signs if you are willing and able to see them. He acted like he was blindsided and was a victim because that was who he was, a victim in his life. I could be wrong, but I doubt it. We choose our partners and how we handle the cards life deals us, and we do the best we can with what we have to work with. This guy was in a lot of trouble long before that mess went down and I don't think he had many inner resources available to him.

 

Yeah I agree.. Sometimes you can't know/see the extent of their crazy..

 

But the signs and clues are always there, very poor judgement.. Either way this man did not deserve to lose his entire life like that.. I could only imagine the permanent mental trauma he may face.

 

RIP to the kids too

 

 

 

 

I skipped reading the news articles bbecause it was too sad. I think it is unfair to blame the husband, he had his limitations and weaknesses and couldn't know she was going to do that. If he was a woman would you judge her as harshly?

I don't think the Father is to blame at all here. But he's damn well retarded & guilty for not handling that situation like a man.
 
What woman will ever take you seriously again after you don't stand up for yourself? Apologise to the neighbour that's been fucking your wife?? Come onnnnnnnn

Clearly the guy is very troubled. Do you think it is an accident that he chose that woman for a wife? Do you think there no clues at all that she was a sick, twisted individual? None of this happened in a vacuum. There are always signs if you are willing and able to see them. He acted like he was blindsided and was a victim because that was who he was, a victim in his life. I could be wrong, but I doubt it. We choose our partners and how we handle the cards life deals us, and we do the best we can with what we have to work with. This guy was in a lot of trouble long before that mess went down and I don't think he had many inner resources available to him.
 
 

I've closely known a few people who've done very crazy shit and I assure you, the signs are rarely there. Or at least rarely obvious. In my experience, crazy shit like this tends to drop out of the blue and seemingly decided on impulse rather than thought. 
I don't see how he shares any form of blame here at all. 

Just because you miss the signs doesn't mean there are no signs. With that said, I don't think the guy is at fault, I just think he showed poor judgement in how he handled things with the affair. He knew his wife was cheating, lying, emotionally blackmailing, gaslighting, and he chose to tolerate all that. As I said, we do the best we can with what we have to work with and this guy was very limited.

 

This is like saying I should have known when a friend was going to kill themselves, rob a bank or commit murder. I didn't though, neither did their families. Nobody did, because those signs simply were not there. You could say we all missed the signs but you'd think at least one person would see it if it were there. 

 

When it comes to this situation, cheating and tolerating it, and expecting that this will lead to a murder/suicide, that's silly. My own significant other and I have been through similar things and nobody has been killed. The huge, huge majority of people don't go out and murder their children because they can't keep their legs closed. 

And like I said, crazy shit like this, in my experience, tends to come out of the blue, often from people you'd least expect. 

 

I saw someone stab another man to death over a girl. He was just a kid and not the type you'd ever expect to kill someone. Drunken argument breaks out one night and the next thing you know, some other kid is bleeding to death for trying to break up a fight. 

Nobody saw that coming and people who weren't there didn't believe it for a while just because nobody would expect him to do something like that.

 

When emotions like this are involved, things can easily happen spontaneously. If such warning signs were at all obvious or easy to catch, we probably wouldn't have so many terror attacks. 

This is like saying I should have known when a friend was going to kill themselves, rob a bank or commit murder. I didn't though, neither did their families. Nobody did, because those signs simply were not there. You could say we all missed the signs but you'd think at least one person would see it if it were there.

Generally the signs become apparent after the fact.

That's why when you see after all the investigations, all the facts come out.. they were secretly depressed, secret diary etc etc etc. They are there, people just don't see them.

People suck.