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[thecapo]

When you make out with over 9 girls in same night you kinda get sick of just the bar scene. I use to be in a frat too so it was boring

[President Mudbrick]

Capo, this is just my two cents here, and mostly just rehashing what's already been said: slow down. Way down. I can understand that you feel ready to settle down, and want someone special to do that with. You want to feel what you felt with the woman you tragically lost. I don't think that's desperation, but getting too serious too quickly smells like desperation to a lot of woman. As well, if you're dating within your age group, you're going to find a lot of women who just aren't ready to settle down.

 

Put the candlelight dinners and poetry away for bit, until you meet someone and become exclusive for awhile. I'm not saying you should just hop from bed to bed and broad to broad, but keep the dating light and just try to enjoy your life.

 

I'm going to give you a dose of tough love here, because you're a fellow IRON member and I'm betting you can take it: be careful not to fall in love with the idea of love and create situations in your head that don't transcribe in reality. Hopeless romantics tend to do that, and it'll end in a lot of heartache.

 

All in all, wish you the best, and I'm sure you'll find someone worth your time.

[nconcilla]

Capo, this is just my two cents here, and mostly just rehashing what's already been said: slow down. Way down. I can understand that you feel ready to settle down, and want someone special to do that with. You want to feel what you felt with the woman you tragically lost. I don't think that's desperation, but getting too serious too quickly smells like desperation to a lot of woman. As well, if you're dating within your age group, you're going to find a lot of women who just aren't ready to settle down.

 

Put the candlelight dinners and poetry away for bit, until you meet someone and become exclusive for awhile. I'm not saying you should just hop from bed to bed and broad to broad, but keep the dating light and just try to enjoy your life.

 

I'm going to give you a dose of tough love here, because you're a fellow IRON member and I'm betting you can take it: be careful not to fall in love with the idea of love and create situations in your head that don't transcribe in reality. Hopeless romantics tend to do that, and it'll end in a lot of heartache.

 

All in all, wish you the best, and I'm sure you'll find someone worth your time.

 

This so much.

[ccabal86]

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[Mia]

I have to say frat boys are decent. At least on my campus. They're actually some of the most hard working goal-oriented people I know.

[onbekende]

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