That's absurd. According to you, two people can't shake hands, work together, or agree on anything, without socialism.
That is a stretch. Almost everything I mentioned is funded by tax dollars and not privately owned (Unions aren't funded by tax dollars but I believe we both agree those are socialist).
Dare you to walk into a crowded military bar and yell "You're a bunch of Socialists!".
Probably a stretch there but the military is funded by the public and is not a PMC.
Some of the things on your list were created with socialism directly responsible... I would support to dissolve them completely.
Would you care to point out a few? I imagine social security would be one of them.
You seem to have the misconception that anything government does is socialism.
From an economic aspect a lot of programs are Socialist. There can be an argument said that social programs are not Socialism. That said almost everything I listed has been complained about and called Socialist by Republican members of Government and/or pundits.
You also seem to have the misconception that the USA is a Democracy... it is a Constitutional Republic.
Where did I mention Democracy?
The only power the Federal Government has over the States was granted to it through the Constitution. The States can take that power away at any time... let's have a Constitutional Convention and see how things change.
To what end?